Miserable relationship, move along eventually

So, today he asked if I wanted to go to breakfast. Immediately I knew where this was going, No Conversation the whole time. Sure enough, there was just us eating. Nothing said. Except, when he complained about a meeting his company was going to have the friday. That was it and when he said it, I didn't on purpose show that I have a hoot. I just continued to eat. 
     Now, this is one of the main reasons I know I'm not growing being in this relationship. Full conversatiins that one, go no where, two, have no meaning, no future of focussing any of it.  This is the reason I want to start going out and meeting peop la who have something going on in their lives that is worth talking about.
     He doesn't bother talking or has any friends that he has a relationship with therefore his conversation skills stink, to say the least.  I wonder sometimes, if I had married Gilbert or Blaine how different my thoughts on relationships would be.  How happy would I be?
     If I had a profile in March for com these would be my standards:
1) would have conversation with crediblity skills
2) is creative in holes
3) is assertive NOT passive
4) lives the great outdoors
5) not cocky, show offy, or rude to others
6) makes money (has a real job)
Now, are these to much to ask for? Do these really exist? Or an I stick with what I have because all the top great ones are dyngnout or taken.
     I try not be to depressed of where so am.  I think I have to be assertive myself to get where ai want to be and who with.